How 5 Things CHANGES The Way You Approach Sex Toys

August 3, 2023

The variety of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys change from purely male or purely female adult toys to toys which you can use by both sexes. There are also some sex toys that may also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Some sex toys aid the man’s erection, stimulate the feminine genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to ‘normal’ sex. Other adult toys provide an ‘environment’ for variations in sex, for example so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help someone who has difficulty with unaided sex to attain sexual satisfaction. However most adult toys provide a new solution to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. Additionally, it may provide a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is that a masturbator provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation supplied by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most well known sex toys are ‘vibrators’ which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. 飛機杯 are mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but could also be used to stimulate any other area of the female body or that of a man’s.

The simplest of the are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker when compared to a pencil). They often have an internal battery (or two) which powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by way of a wire. This motor is fitted with a little, out of balance, weight mounted on the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator which has a controller, because the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both the rate and strength of vibration. Both strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you find the sex toy. The best effect may not be as strong and as fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your degree of excitement builds. To get the best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators could have different characteristics and you may well find you like one combination a lot more than another as well as your preference may even vary based on which part of your system you are stimulating.

Recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not merely the static control of power/speed but also let you select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

Additionally, there are other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some sex toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually be determined by a motor which makes the sex toy continually change its shape which gives a sort of rotational movement or helps it be move back and forth. The trunk and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air mattress pump rather than motor. The movements have been used to create, for instance, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a ‘blow job’.

On a bigger scale and many more expensive, there are ‘sex machines’ that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we have covered vibrating, moving and thrusting adult toys. As you may have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering array of combinations.

A common combination in lots of ‘Rabbit Style’ vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many adult toys add varying textures with their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator may have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys instead of provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a number of sleeves to put over the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

There are rings that squeeze the bottom of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man’s erection and in addition changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may give a man’s partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.

There are PVC and Polyurethane bed linens which are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

An excellent question is: why do people work with a masturbator? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the imagination (being taken by a machine), provide variety (new methods to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences extremely hard with ‘normal body parts’ (particularly vibrating adult toys and electro-stimulation).

Where To Start

When you have not tried a masturbator before and don’t yet have a good idea of what you might like, try among the simpler vibrators first. Most probably you will benefit from the experience and then begin to wonder what other delights can be found with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys …

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